Flirting Rules For Beginners-Must Follow

How to flirt with the girl at school/college/work I’ve started liking? Please help. I don’t know where to start from?

Hehe,this is the right place 😉

Don’t waste our time and let’s start:

(Always remember, “Women like men, not boys” )


  • Start flirting her online

Most guys feel shy to start a conversation with a girl face to face. If you’re wondering “How to flirt with a girl if facing her makes me nervous?” – don’t worry; turn to online chat (even if you know your girl in real life). Not having to face or directly talk to the girl you like takes the pressure off to a great extent and helps you be yourself, which is the first step of flirting successfully.

  • Never show desperation while flirting

Nothing turns girls off more than under-confident desperation. Don’t be apologetic for taking her time (girls hate that). Don’t ping her saying “hi”. Ping her saying, “Hi Tripti! How’re you doing?” In case she doesn’t reply the first time you ping her, never use the same opening line the next time. Start by something like, “Hey tripti! The video you’d shared was awsm. Where did you find it?” It shows you’re not talking to her because you’re desperate, but because you’ve got something real to say. You get the point. 😉 Slowly slowly make your way 😉

  • Don’t give it ALL

Simple don’t be her dog.You’re flirting with your girl; you’re not her boyfriend yet. You need to attract her first, before you show her how responsible you are. So while flirting with a girl, don’t be the oh-so-caring I’ll-do-anything-for-you-including-daily-chores man-in-waiting of hers – that can wait for life after marriage. 😛 For now, that kind of behaviour will make her like you as a friend and a pet – not as a man she feels attracted to..

  • Complimenting her is a must

If you want to successfully flirt with a girl,especially an Indian girl – striking a balance between sounding hungry and sounding bold is key. Don’t start with, “Hey! You’re looking hot in that photo you recently posted. ;)” On the other hand, if it has been a week that you’ve started talking/chatting with her and you haven’t actually gotten around to complimenting her even once yet, chances are you’re not going anywhere. Compliments don’t always have to be on her looks. And they need to sound natural, casual and confident.


  • Take a chance and test for more 😉

Each girl has her distinct level of comfort with flirting. Some stop talking to you if you call them hot, while some feel offended if you don’t. 😉 Continuously test her limits while flirting.Try a hint, like, “You’re the most interesting girl I know.” If she responds favourably (favourable responses include 😛 😉 J), after a few days try, “If you were not so busy, I’d have loved to go for a coffee/meeting with you sometime. 😉 ”

You need to be bold n fast enough to hold her interest, while making sure you don’t offend her.

So Guys what are the golden rules which worked when you started flirting with your girl? Let me know by leaving a comment. 😉



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